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What are the eight phases of EMDR?
Cassandra Minnick 4/12/23 Cassandra Minnick 4/12/23

What are the eight phases of EMDR?

Eight Phases of EMDR

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Safety isn’t a warm-up step in therapy -it is the work.

When someone comes into therapy, it’s often because safety was missing somewhere it should have existed: in relationships, in family systems, or during moments when the nervous syst
When someone you love is in EMDR therapy, it can be confusing to watch.
They might seem different on therapy days. They may not want to talk. They may need more rest than usual.

That doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong or that you n
Trauma is a loss or perceived loss of safety.
And that loss doesn’t have to come from something dramatic or obvious.

It can happen in families.
In relationships.
In environments where safety was supposed to exist, but didn’t.

In this ep
True Secure Attachment: There is a house.  A house of safety.  Nothing is needed from you to build it.  I will build it.  Your Dad will build it. We do not need you to hand us the hammer, to be happy, to like us, to be easy to understand, we will bui
EMDR intensives are often misunderstood.

They aren’t about rushing healing or skipping steps.

They’re about creating enough time and containment for the brain to actually do the work, especially when weekly sessions keep hitting pause j
High achievers know how to solve problems, optimize systems, and push for results.
Relationships ask for something very different.

Connection doesn’t come from doing more, fixing faster, or checking the right boxes.
It comes from safety, prese
If you’re a high achiever, this can be one of the most confusing therapy experiences.

You’re showing up.
You’re self-aware.
You’re doing the work.

And yet… the same patterns keep looping.

That doesn’t mean ther
The traits that helped you excel at work didn’t appear out of nowhere. They were shaped long before your first promotion, degree, or big milestone - built in moments where doing more, achieving more, or being “the responsible one” f
High achievers are experts at solving external problemssystems, teams, logistics, strategy. But your nervous system isn’t a spreadsheet you can out-think or out-perform.

If you’re showing up in the world as capable, competent, and calm&h
EMDR isn’t supposed to be fast - it’s supposed to be effective.
For clients with chronic relational trauma, the “slow” phase isn’t failure… it’s foundation-building.

When someone has never experienced safet
The holidays can hold both - the hard pieces and the moments that genuinely carry us through winter.
And when you have a history of relational trauma, the season often brings up old patterns before you even realize it.

Here are a few grounding remin

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